We won't be together but we're TOGETHER!
Well, it's settled. I will be welcoming the new year in with family and friends...and no sweet boy!

You see, while Christmas together went over very well and we've been able to spend loads of time together over the break- it had been decided weeks ago that he'd go to the "boozy party" at his friend's house. Meanwhile, I planned to attend the substance-free event at the Rec center in the town that I work in so that I could be with friends, family, everyone really

. While I sit here now knowing that I'll get no smoochies until tomorrow nite.

..I'm thinking that I made the right choice.
I mean, being a part of a couple doesn't mean that you have to do EVERYTHING together...right!?!

When friends have raised an eyebrow and asked, "You mean you trust him out with hot girls- on NYEve- and you KNOW they'll all be drinking

????" I simply reply, "yup."

So, am I being naive? I've been disappointed by guys in the past who've cheated and I've bailed- but wouldn't it be worse if I just assumed that Ray will do the same? Shouldn't I give him the benefit of the doubt until he actually does something- anything- that would give me reason to wonder?

Me thinks the answer is, wholeheartedly, YES...trust my boy!
AND while my previous "boys" have either turned a nose up at my furry/woolly friends...Ray actually likes them. Many of my woollies are still a bit standoffish with him

(think it's cuz he's so tall) but I think that my dog likes him more than he likes me (traitor). Oh, ladies, bonus alert- he COOKS and DOES DISHES!!!! Yeah, he might even be a better cook than I am. Sigh.
Besides, Christmas brought us closer- we've even got tix now for our first trip together for March. Four days in sunny Florida soaking up the sun while we scuba, snorkel, swamp buggy, parasail....oh my this is going to be fun! Seems to me like planning stuff like this is proof enough of the reciprocity of my affection, no?
So, while we may not be together when the balls drop (long story) we are "together" now. Last year slid in with me in a relationship with someone else and the whole thing filled me with dread

and this year..well, I'm feeling so good about things that I could spit.

(Who knows what that actually means..my grandfather used to say it all the time)

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Guess I'll end my lovefest by saying that I truly hope the New Year brings the happiness that I'm feeling to everyone who reads this...and if this is just suuuupppperrrr corny- so be it.
**Oh Yeah, 14 days left til Three Days Grace & Seether up in Montreal!!!!

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